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Borderline Personality Disorder can oftentimes be difficult to diagnose, which can lead to confusion and frustration when trying to cope.
Like a lot of people with BPD, I have a chameleon-like ability to take on the coloring of the individual I am with. When other people aren’t around me I feel invisible.
But the act is done more to fool me than to fool them. Engaging in impulsive “pain management" behaviors, such as going on spending sprees, having promiscuous sex, driving recklessly, abusing drugs or alcohol, binge eating, breaking the law, threatening suicide or making attempts, and engaging in self-harm.
Oftentimes being able to maintain healthy relationships with people is a challenge for those living with BPD due to 'splitting'.
Splitting is when an individual rapidly goes from 'I love you' to 'I hate you.' Due to this, splitting, the fear of abandonment is constantly present which can be exhausting.
We invite friends and family of those who are close to someone with BPD to share their experience as well, and also share their own experiences that only someone who loves another with BPD could possibly begin to understand. She would break up with me and then want to get back together—sometimes in the same day. Pain, anger, confusion, never knowing how I’m gonna feel from one minute to the next. When we first began dating, my borderline girlfriend told me I was the very first guy who really loved her for what she was. After a few months, she started criticizing me and everything I did was wrong.always encourages seeking medical attention for any mental health issue, but we also recognize that it takes incredible courage to seek help.We hope to provide a dynamic environment to which everyone finds a form of support regardless of where they are in their journey to wellness.
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Her tone was very fast—rat-a-tat-tat—like she was firing at me.